Disrespect
“The biggest problem for humanity, not only on a global level, but even for individuals, is misunderstanding.” – Rinpoche
We spend a tremendous amount of time dealing with misunderstandings that lead us to believe we’ve been disrespected. Word choice, inflection, analysis, evaluation, attitude, mood — all factor into how we interpret meanings and motives.
Of course, alcohol and/or emotionally charged situations can supply the spark that ignites a confrontation born and bred from the conclusion that we’ve been disrespected.
Disrespect? Is it worth a fight or argument when our perception is clouded and a person’s motives are difficult to ascertain? Isn’t it better to seek clarification before the cursing, threats, angry tears, and high-pitched voices emerge?
Disrespect? Do you really care what she thinks? If so, aren’t you showing her respect then? Irony.
Disrespect? “Street cred” is based in loyalty, strength, integrity, and intelligence. NOT in screeching unintelligible nonsense at your ex-girlfriend in the parking lot of a club.
Disrespect? Grace under pressure. Exhibit grace under pressure.
Walk away. Speak to her privately, in the daylight, sober and sane. She probably didn’t mean it.
