Comfort and Joy
If “your” woman is seeking — and finding – comfort and reassurance from someone other than you, she’s NOT your woman. This situation may or may not be fixable, depending on the following:
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the circumstances involved, i.e., why she’s not comfortable talking to you
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the strength of the relationship she has with the woman that is serving as her confidante
This, by the way, is how I believe many lesbian relationships begin and end.
