“Good Lover”
Dear Dyke Whisperer, What makes someone a “great lover?”
Tina in Fort Walton Beach
Dear Tina,
Being a “great lover” has to do with sexual compatibility, more so than tricks, stamina, or extensive knowledge — although tricks, stamina, and extensive knowledge can be extremely beneficial.
Sometimes two people are nearly completely physically compatible, i.e., they are able to effortlessly satisfy each other sexually. Each would consider the other a great lover, although a random woman might have a less than stellar sexual experience with either one of them.
Generally speaking, I think a great lover is a woman who can quickly assess what a woman wants sexually and deliver it. A great lover manages sexual expectations and then exceeds them. A great lover leaves her partner feeling complete and is able to make a woman feel simultaneously confident and free, wild and safe. A great lover satisfies while leaving her partner already dreaming of the next encounter. Finally, a great lover makes virtually all her sexual partners feel like great lovers themselves.
