Flirting Straight Woman
Dear Dyke Whisperer, There’s a woman at work who says she’s straight but always flirts with me. Is she serious or is he just fucking with me?
Frustrated in Dayton
Dear Frustrated,
It’s not possible for me to know. Sometimes, straight women just want the attention. They flirt with anyone who is receptive to flirting. There is a possibility, though, that she’s not straight — or wants to experiment.
If you’re interested, let her make the first physical move. Don’t stand close to her; let her come to you. When she’s happy and relaxed, look her dead in the eyes and ask her if she’s interested in you. Her reaction should tell you everything you need to know.
Please realize that she really might be playing you. She might be experimenting. This is always the risk involved when interacting with a flirtatious woman who identifies as straight.
