Unhappy Girlfriend
Dear Dyke Whisperer, I know my girlfriend is unhappy with our relationship. I’ve asked her a hundred times what I can do to fix things. She just keeps saying she’s not happy. What do I do?
Sad in Birmingham
Dear Sad,
She may be dealing with issues at work that she doesn’t want to burden you with. Maybe she’s having family problems. There is obviously a communication problem, which, in my estimation, is the worst kind of relationship problem because it indicates that the relationship is not sound.
You seem willing to listen and want to save the relationship. If she isn’t comfortable sharing with you, you need to either gently persuade her to discuss her feelings and/or concerns with you or back-off completely and hope for the best.
