Signs, Signs!
Dear Dyke Whisperer, What are some signs that a woman is interested in you?
Bon-Bon in Austin
Dear Bon-Bon,
Popular books have discussed body language. Social scientists have studied body language extensively and attraction. There are certain indicators of desire among women, but please understand that generalities might not apply to individuals. However, if you see more than three of these signs, you certainly want to ask for her phone number and/or stick around to see how the interaction evolves.
Physical Signs of Desire
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Lip pouting
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Touching her face and hair (preening behavior)
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When communicating with you, her voice becomes louder and her gestures more exaggerated (she wants to stand out from crowd)
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Mispronouncing easy/familiar words (you’ve distracted her)
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Forgetting what she is saying
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Turning to you so that she’s almost facing you head on (don’t squirm; stay in one spot).
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Laughing a lot
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Initiating physical contact of any kind
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Mimicking behavior, i.e., you move your chair, she moves hers
