In Love with Two Women?
Dear Dyke Whisperer, I think I’m currently in love with two women. Is this possible? Can it be sustained?
Torn in Chelsea
Dear Torn,
I don’t think it’s possible: you believe you’re in love with the one you’re with at the moment. I think the condition of being in love is exclusionary by nature. You don’t want to be with anybody else BECAUSE you’re in love.
They each likely fulfill different needs and desires for you. No need to worry, unless you’re an experienced player — and players don’t fall in love easily or with two women — you’ll lose them both shortly and won’t have this “problem” any longer.
