Loneliness
Dear Dyke Whisperer, I am so lonely. I have a difficult time making friends and have abandoned the thought of finding a girlfriend. I hate to sound so pathetic, but it’s true. Do you have any advice for me?
Lonely in Milwaukee
Dear Lonely,
1. You may be suffering from depression and should seek the advice of / interaction with a counselor, who can further direct you. Your feelings of isolation and hopelessness may be the result of a biochemical imbalance.
2. I’ve visited Milwaukee several times, and it seems to be a lively, progressive city! I think one of the best things you can do is volunteer at a non-profit organization. Become a docent at the art museum, work with children, battered women, abandoned pets, the homeless. Whatever your personal passion is, find a non-profit that will allow you to express yourself. You are likely to find other volunteers who are as passionate as you.
As a volunteer, you’ll be able to control how many hours you participate and when you interact with others. These organizations are volunteer-driven so, with maybe a few distasteful exceptions, you should be welcomed and appreciated. If you volunteer and don’t feel comfortable or appreciated, find another organization!
