Lesbians and “True Bisexuals”
[For a working definition of "true bisexuals," please see the post on 4/28/2008.]
Some lesbians fear bisexual women as a group because they don’t want to compete with men, or they believe that the bisexual woman in question will eventually choose the easier heterosexual (in appearance, at least) path. Some lesbians talk about the fear of diseases from bisexuals.
All these reasons are ridiculous and indicative of either a weak disposition or ignorance.
As far as “competing for women,” relationships aren’t a sport. Fucking is a sport, and we’ll discuss that tomorrow. Unwarranted fears and generalizations are symptoms of a coward. If you meet a woman and like her, ask if she has a girlfriend or a boyfriend. If she says she does not, ask her out. If, after several dates, you two are compatible and eager for the relationship to progress, what does it matter if she is attractive to men? She’s with YOU! “Oh, but she’ll leave me.” Yeah, with that attitude, so will a lesbian. Enjoy the present!
Yes, it is easier in the U.S. (and elsewhere) today to be a heterosexual. It is also easier to be an asshole, selfish, and an opportunist. NO relationship is guaranteed to last — no matter if vows are exchanged. Don’t generalize; make this between the two of you.
The issue of diseases? Twenty percent of U.S. adults have genital herpes. Promiscuous behavior knows no sexual orientation boundaries, and it only takes one encounter to contract a sexually-transmitted disease. Use dental dams, sterilize toys, be smart and responsible. Get yourself tested and ask her to get tested next time she goes in for a check-up.
“Pathetic Bisexuals” (as defined in the post on 4/28/2008): If you have a boyfriend and you’re pursuing a woman to get her to participate either with him or with him watching, TELL her up front. Real-life lesbians (as opposed to the gay-for-pay, plastic monstrosities involved in “lesbian” porn) aren’t here for your man’s entertainment — and, if you don’t inform a woman of this up-front, you are a pathetic piece of shit.
Find another like-minded bisexual. Oh, wait that means that SHE’LL have a boyfriend too, and YOUR boyfriend won’t be able to deal with HIM being involved, will he? Because that’s “like gay and stuff.” If your orifices cannot satisfy him, don’t come [pun intended] to us.
