Long-Distance Lovers
It is difficult to generalize about long-distance relationships. With the assistance of text messaging, IM, and computer cameras it is easier than ever to stay in near constant contact with a girlfriend/partner. I believe this lessens paranoia and frustration, as lovers can “verify” their respective locations and reveal their feelings of love and longing at will.
However, a woman who cheats is going to cheat, whether she’s in a long-distance relationship or lying next to you. Some long-distance lovers have arrived for surprise visits only to discover their loved ones vertically or horizontally interacting romantically with other women.
I think that, if the time spent together is rewarding enough, some women have the patience, discipline, emotional capacity, and fortitude to remain faithful and as actively involved in a relationship as possible, despite geographic separation.
I also think that some women have a difficult time resisting temptation and that the old adage “out of sight, out of mind” can come into play quickly and painfully.
If you rationally think she’s worthy and there are strong indications that you’ll physically be together one day, I think a loving, stable long-distance relationship justifies the investment in time, emotion, and sexual deprivation. Time will demonstrate whether this has been a wise investment or not.
