The Dyke Whisperer

Let’s talk vibrators. They are readily available in different sizes, styles, and shapes from sex stores, the Internet, and catalogs. The majority can be delivered to you in discreet, unmarked packages.

You may choose to purchase several vibrators, depending on the task you want to accomplish. ALWAYS remember: either use a condom or sterilize ANY and EVERY sex toy used for penetration, ESPECIALLY when sharing toys with a lover. Condoms facilitate cleaning up immensely. If transferring a vibrator from your anus to your vagina, again, you must sterilize it.

It is often advisable to use a little lube when using a vibrator. A subsequent entry will be devoted to lubes.

SIZE: Small vibrators such as the Pocket Rocket are convenient when travelling.  If you will be using the vibrator for penetration, the girth of the toy is as important a consideration as (1) the length and (2) the intensity of the vibrations for your pleasure.  If you are uncertain of the girth that works best for you, opt for a smaller diameter to avoid painful situations.

STYLES: Will be using your vibrator on your clitoris? Will you use it to penetrate your vagina? Phallic-shaped vibrators can be used for both as long as the tip area’s vibrations are strong enough for you. Do you prefer both penetration and clitoral stimulation?  Dual-action vibrators, like the Rabbit Habit, allow you to experience both sensations simultaneously. If you have a more difficult time achieving an orgasm, you might want to try an electric vibrator, which is the most powerful type. The downside of electric vibrators is that they are not readily portable, but they do tend to last longer than their battery-powered alternatives.

Plug-in models like the Magic Wand vibrate the most powerfully, and jelly-rubber vibrators that use one small battery have the least amount of intensity. You might want to choose a vibrator that has a variable speed control so you can adjust the amount of vibration. After some experimentation, you’ll be able to achieve powerful orgasms at will.

STRUCTURE:  Pick the color, design, and material that best suit your physical and psychological needs and desires. Vibrators are available in different colors and shapes. Some are designed to look exactly like a penis; others are shaped like whimsical creatures and objects.